My friend says yes, and that it's scary and sort of sad. Whenever I see that someone has taken more than they're going to eat, and leaves the plate or bowl to just sit, without even asking if anyone else would like it, and it goes to waste, I go ballistic. In my house, we save leftovers, and I usually have them for breakfast, and dinner the next day.
Example: my friend will take the last of the soup in a giant bowl, and only drink the liquid, then leave the bowl on the counter for someone to find 5 hours later.
I sort of went crazy on them. I guess I didn't realize it or something, but my friend said it was pretty scary, and now I think she thinks I want to eat everything that no one finishes and I feel kind of ashamed about it, like I want it all for myself or something.
Is this a "fat mindset" or a "I learned not to be wasteful, and you, my friend, are wasteful as all get out!" mindset?