So, raise your hand if you have ever seen an episode of either Maury or Ricki Lake where the main guest used to be overweight in high school, and has now lost a ton of weight, and wants to confront a former crush or bully, etc.. Often, the bully is sad about how they treated the main guest, and they usually apologize.
Sometimes, however, the main guest gets dissed by the other guest in that the former crush, bully, etc., will say that hardly remember the person, or, that they don't notice much of a change, aren't really interested to begin with, etc.
What would you do? If you had a chance to let a person who once put you down (for whatever reason) know that you are better than they stated, etc., would do tell them? If you knew a person and they made fat jokes, and you had lost weight, would you send them a pic to let them know they were wrong about how they treated you?
I do understand that most people would say that if someone was judgmental or put you down, that you don't need to waste any energy by letting them know of your improvements. But, have you ever let the person know that what they said or thought was wrong? Have you ever rocked the cute red high heels, or kissed the new beau in front of that person, just because of how jerk-like they had been?