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Originally Posted by sweetsmmr91
when I weighed 345 pounds I was really insecure, and I remember one time on my way into gym class, these girls I was sort of friends with were talking to some guys and as I walked by the guy goes 'THAT is why we have Jenny Craig'. The "friends" started laughing. I was really embarrassed and pretty much felt like crying. But back then I never did anything, I basically just walked away, blushed, and wished that no one would say anything.
Now, I'm way thinner, and people treat me WAY better and it kind of pisses me off. I feel like when I'm in some social situations, I just think "wow if this was a year ago none of these guys would be being this friendly. None of these guys would be putting their arm around me and telling me jokes." I guess I over-think things, but looking back now I wish I'd have stood up for myself.
And the insulting doesn't end once you get to a more healthy weight (I'm not skinny yet but I carry my weight pretty well). People who see me now and haven't seen me in a while seriously can be such idiots. My mom's sort of friend saw me and goes to her husband, "Do you remember Nicole?" and he didn't recognize me so she holds her arms out really wide and goes "You know, THAT Nicole". My jaw droppped and I was like "Um, hold on a second" and walked away in shock. Then people just compliment stupidly. One guy goes "You look WAY better now than you used to." Ummmm. I usually just say "Um, thanks? I guess?" Then people are constantly asking how much I weigh! And I'm like "Well, I've probably got another 30 - 40 pounds to go before I'm at my goal weight." Trying to keep it vague.
People are annoying, I guess I've never really known how to deal with it. Haha
to all of you!
When I read this I immediately thought of a comeback (not that I would have if I was there at the moment).
Wouldn't it have been great if you had looked at the guy and said "and you are the reason why we have birth control!!"
Gives me the giggles just thinking about you saying it.