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  • All you can do is keep your head up. When you lose all the weight and she comes around you could possibly be her coach. Jelousy is not a good thing but you shouldn't beat yourself up over it. You are doing this for you and you only.
  • Quote: This is why i like being on this journey alone (except for you guys!). Jealousy will always be a factor, whether someone admits it or not. Just try to stay focused and ignore the ignorant comments!
    i agree!

    this would be twice as hard for me if i were going through it with another person.

    OP -- hopefully you can talk some sense into your sister! it's sad that she doesn't want to accept responsibility for what she's done herself.
  • Quote: This is why i like being on this journey alone (except for you guys!). Jealousy will always be a factor, whether someone admits it or not. Just try to stay focused and ignore the ignorant comments!
    Word to this! I always feel a little on edge when someone I know starts dieting or trying to lose weight. I do this for me on my time, and I hate feeling like someone else is gonna "beat" me!
  • MzJuicyD: Words of wisdom! I know that she is jealous, and I wish that she would just get over it and join me. In the end it will always just be me! I will stay totally focused, and motivated! Thank you! Good luck to you, and good job on losing that weight!
    HappyChick86: Thank you I will stay positive, and help her in the end! Thank you, and good luck!
    gagalu: I'm trying, but she is in total denial! I hope she does better though! Thank you and good luck to ya, and good job on your weight loss!
    krampus: So true! I'm just going to stay focused on me. I am a very competitive person, but sometimes, when it comes to health that's not always good! Good luck on your journey!
  • What do you say in response? Gee that's mean of her!

    I'd have probably retorted with "I don't eat crap like you do, that's why I'm losing and you aren't!"

    She'll eat her words as you continue to lose and she doesn't.