I did it I went out on a date with the guy I've been e-mailing and texting. I was so excited before the date I was dancing around and putting on my makeup I was really jazzed about it. Someone even commented to me, 'oh you're really happy today.' But then I'm on the date, it's a coffee date and the first 20-30 minutes is ok. This date turns into three hours and they weren't exactly a good three hours, it was like a long drawn out three hours. We didn't have much to talk about and I had sort of a lame time. I've had worst evenings but this date ranked up there.
I feel weird because he is a nice guy and he has fallen on some hard times. I feel like I should like him more then I do because I liked him when we were just e-mailing and texting but not so much in person. I'll admit though even when we were texting eachother I thought he was over texting me.
Does anyone think my feelings will change, maybe I will develope feelings or learn to like him more? I'm just not attracted to him. But I worry maybe I'm just talking myself out of a good thing, maybe I should be talking myself into it. But just the thought of a second date...ugh.