I've been told several times by different people that they think I am putting too much significance on my weight loss. I do hope it will solve some of my problems, maybe make me approachable to people in public so I can make some new friends, maybe find a man ... all that jazz.
I don't know if it's true or not, but I do think that the major part of me being single is my weight. I've gone on dates, I know I'm a delightful person [most of the men want to see me again but I'm the one who doesn't follow through for whatever reason], I know I'm beautiful with a great personality that goes on for miles ... but I'm fat.
I do think that as the fat melts away doors will open for me, but this probably isn't true. Am I setting myself up for a massive disappointment here? Am I going to reach my goal and see that nothing has actually changed other than a silly number on the scale?
What about you guys. Do/did you think that losing weight would solve many of your problems and leave you with a happier you -- only to find that it wasn't true; or was it?