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Originally Posted by Eliana
I whole heartedly agree with Shmead, so you'll have to respectfully disagree with me too. It just shows how differently people think, I guess. I think instead of calling yourself "fat" perhaps you could say "I have fat". There's a big difference.
By that logic, tall people should say "I have height," and short people "I lack height?"
Hmmm, "lacking" seems to imply a negative judgement so maybe the latter should be replaces with "I have shortness?"
I prefer the "I am (adjective)" format: I am creative. I am intelligent. I am outgoing. I am compassionate. I am passionate. I am caring. I am loud. I am boisterous. I am funny. I am rarely quiet. I am fat - very fat.
All of my adjectives combine to make me freakishly fabulous, and being fat doesn't diminish that fabulosity in the least.
I think the crime has to be taken out of being fat. And my small contribution to that cause is to use the word fat as if it were no more or less an insult than tall, blonde, slim, slender, pale, freckled, intelligent, friendly.....
I do use it only for myself (unless I have permission to use it by someone who believes as I do), but I share that belief as often as I can.
When people tell me not to use the word because it's "mean." I say "no, it's not mean. I refuse to see or use the word as an insult. I am fat - you are tall (or whatever adjective they are)."
I explain why I use and embrace the word (and why I hate euphemisms, most especially the word "fluffy.")
and so I'll sign off as the name my father lovingly gave me and continues to use (which I edited when I came on to this site, because I didn't think people would understand)
Fat Kaplods,