hey all...i just am frustrated and really hurt by some of the people around me. My cousin who I started this weight loss journey with (she ended up quitting early on) no longer talks to me at all, one of my friends who had gastric bypass and who I have been cheering on all through her 2 year journey (she still has a bit of a way to go) and have said nothing but good things to is always avoiding me....Also recently I saw some of my old high school friends that I knew when I was much bigger (in the 240s) and they really were not happy at all to see me -- I know I know I'm not supposed to care about what people think and just keep it moving but it still hurts. I have noticed that when I was much bigger (around 240) I had a lot more friends (i was always social, the person everyone went to for advice and have always had a self deprecating sense of humor - always poking fun at myself) but now I actually am taking care of myself I just feel I'm losing friends. For example the other day I complimented this girl I know about her dress and she said in a sarcastic way - its the only thing that could fit me not like u'd understand. i just can't believe people and it really hurts especially when I feel like I'm losing my friendship with cousins and friends--- I honestly still see myself as one of the fat girls, I still see myself as the same person.
But I have some really close friends that have been supportive so I'm thankful for that. But has anyone experienced this before? Do you feel people liked you way way more when you were bigger?