I just entered maintenance in the last few weeks and I realized that I already have an attitude of expecting failure.
Last week we found out my husband's job in CA is going to be permanent so my two sons and I are leaving NC in a few months to join Dad. This is just wonderful news. It makes maintenance harder for me because we like to BBQ as a family or stop by the market and eat outside at a park. If I'm logical that is no big deal. I can stick to healthy foods, I don't have to over eat and it is only one day a week. I did not get into the 220s by having a weekly family outing! I used to eat candy and junk food ALL THE TIME. But still what runs through my head? "Oh I am going to regain all the weight. I might as well stop trying now!"
Today my older son (who is autistic) is having a really hard time which causes me to feel stressed. What runs through my head? "Oh NO. I gave away all my larger clothes and now I will have to spend money when I regain the weight!" I didn't go off plan at all so why would I think I'm going to regain the weight?
I knew early on in the process that I was changing my eating habits for good. I KNEW IT. When I got to my maintenance range I didn't get all excited about the things I could eat now because I still can't eat those things. I still FEEL like I'm going to fail.