Hey there and welcome!
I am also a 37 year old mother of 2, who had over 50 to lose (less than that now). This is a great site for getting love
when you're down, tough love
when you need to get back up, and occasional butt kicks
just 'cause sometimes it just takes a kick in the pants! (I know I need them occasionally...
.)
Look forward to hearing from you. You can do it!