Hi,
I work as a caregiver to the elderly and just in the past week have been caring for a difficult client. She is 86 and was kinda forced to have someone in to help her or go the a nursing home. She as been a client of my agency for about 2 1/2 weeks. The first morning I went to take care of her everything I did seemed wrong. She does not "sugar coat" anything. She has had a rough past few months with her health as well as her husband being hospitalized with severe heart issues. So I can feel for her to a point.
The one thing that makes me the angriest is that she treats me in a "one down" poistion because of my weight. She is very health conscious and has made comments not directly at me but about other people with weight issues. I hate that. When she watches tv she is a equal opportunity prejudice person. I got myself to this weight but other people she seems to be prejudice about don't have a choice.
This anger takes away from concentrating on not binging. I am so consumed with the thoughts of dealing with her that I slept the day away and just feel angry inside.
I am ,I know, too "tender hearted" at times and need to grow more of a backbone, no doubt. But trying to overcome an addiction like binge eating is a formidable foe and dealing with people like this makes it difficult to stay on course. But there are all types of people out there that one may come across.
Has anyone had any similar experiences or advice?
Thanks!! Bonnie