I asked my friend if she wanted to join the gym with me and be my work-out buddy (she is overweight, but I wasnt implying that to her). She took offense bigtime. I have known her for 12 years and she has always been pretty thin. She got married, had a child, and continues to complain about her 60 pound weight gain. I have not said a word about it because I know it is a sensitive subject for ME so I tend to tread lightly on that subject with anyone.
Anyway, I really just wanted someone to work out with... I thought it would help us see eachother more.
Well, she said to me,"Robin, not everyone has the time to focus on weight. I have a family to care for. It is easy for you because you dont have any responsibilities and you like dieting and exercising."
It is NOT easy for me. I have been working my butt off and I am not one of those people that gets a high from exercising. PLUS I work full time. It IS DIFFICULT for me. I have always been one of those people who would rather shoot off my left foot than exercise... I guess no one sees that. *sigh* I guess I will just continue my efforts alone. I dare not ask another friend in fear of offending them.
Sorry for the rant, I just feel alone.