Let's talk about a touchy subject...

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  • being "the sex"

    This is ONE THING that as people who have lost or are losing weight, we never talk about!

    I am having the BEST of my life right now. Now it could have something to do with my sexual peak (lol) but I can tell that you that with every single pound I lose I am able to do more, get closer to my husband and feel more than I ever could before. And I thought I had a great sex life THEN!

    I tell you... losing weight was WORTH IT... if only for the sex part!

    Have you found this to be so? In not so graphic detail so we have a chance of keeping this thread open
  • Mine has never been bad, but it's better when I'm thinner. I'm more flexible of course, but mostly I feel better about myself and feel sexier!
  • Confidence is key, so the weightloss helps there.

    I've only lost the 20lbs so far, but I can already tell I'm much more...um...active and have a longer endurance in the bedroom!! I can't wait till more of me sheds away!! I have a few positions I've missed dearly that you just can't bend into with the extra buldge!
  • Same with me Tara! And my boyfriend sure doesn't complain when I wear a short skirt lol
  • Just had to laugh, (in a good, funny, way) at the title of the tread, "a touchy subject" Sex is definitely that!
  • Jealous.....

    aksh - good on ya, gals!
  • Don't be jealous, in my case, it helps to be married to a horndog!
  • It's one of the things I look forward to having more of as I shrink.

    Don't forget, Sex burns a good amount of calories!
  • The thing I like the MOST is how we just meld together now. There is no big belly to get in the way, my pubic mound has shrunk, my tummy has shrunk UP so it's not longer hanging in front. It's the closeness... I loves it.
  • Mine has never been bad...sure I've had some moments where I felt self conscious! In my line of work it's my job to give help give a woman the confidence in the bedroom regardless of size, age, or anything else a woman might consider a limitation.

    Here's a good study http://www.aphroditewomenshealth.com...lth_news.shtml
  • I know my new found flexibility will help incredibly when I'm back in my baby's arms on Friday night. He and I have had a great sex life ever since the first time and it will just continue to get better.
  • and we've always had good sex. I'm just surprised that it could GET any better... lol!
  • hehe...I'll never tell.
  • Seeing as the boyfriend is 7000 miles awayy.... no telling yet. HOWEVER, newer pictures of me seem to be doing the trick for him... *ahem*... and I definitely feel a rise in my libido! Lookin forward to tryin it out in Jan! I'll get back to ya!
  • Quote: hehe...I'll never tell.
    Come on Lori Dish woman!!!