Today I went for a doctor's visit. She was shocked and congratulated me on my weight loss. I thanked her and told her I was having a hard time losing the rest, to get to my ideal weight of 130. Here's the conversation:
Doctor: Hold on missy, what you think is your ideal weight may not match up to what we think it should be.
[She took her little circular dial out of her drawer and asked for my height.]
Doctor: Ah ha, See here missy, according to my calculations it says you're at your ideal weight, I would have to nag you if you lost anymore weight.
Me: According to your device from what weight to what weight is ideal?
Doctor: Umm, 150-138 If you want to go to 130, you'd be going way too low.
Me: That doesn't make sense because everything I read says that my ideal weight (for my height and build) is between 125-140. Since I was at 130 before I had kids, that's where I want to end at.
Doctor: Well things change, your body is much different then the time before you had children. That ideal weight no longer fits you.
Me: Well, everything I've read says that I'm over weight.
Doctor: Nope, you've had kids so that doesn't apply to you anymore.
In the end she did say "well you know its up to you, I know that after you have children you want to be where you were before you had them. But in all honesty, you'll never get that body back." I just did the polite thing, smile and thought "I'll show you."
Again, I wonder why does our society think that when you have children you're supposed to have this mommy figure. But yet on the flip side, people hassle you about how cute your body was before. Make up your minds people!!!!
That's my rant for the day.