It's worse when you DID have a lap band put in... I got one two Novembers ago, and it did absolutely nothing. Apparently a device that controls fullness doesn't really matter when you're ignoring your fullness anyway.

Since March, I've lost 45 lbs through sheer effort, counting calories, and exercise. Very proud of myself. Of course, every time I visit my mom, it's "Seeeee, the lap band is finally paying off!"

*grumble grumble*

Me too! My doctors words were, "It's next to impossible to get off all the weight that you'll need to without surgery", while she made a very disappointed and doubting face.

And sooo many people start talking to me as if I've had the surgery. They don't even ask if I did, just launch straight into the surgery talk.

Well now maybe that nurse will know it!!! Although she probably thinks you're some oddity or something . Congratulations. Must have felt MARVELOUS.

Congratulations on your success! You're doing so well.

I've gotten these comments too regarding surgery. I'd also been told by both a doctor and a nurse practitioner that the only way I could get my weight off would be through surgery.

I think most of us have or will experience these questions and the disbelief that follows the answers. My sister went from a size 20 to a size 0, in roughly 5 months, however, she's a drug addict. All I hear from my mama is how quickly my sister took it off and how mine seems to be taking me forever. Well.....YEAH?

What I like most about your post was how obvious it was the nurse wasn't really LISTENING to you. You said the same thing three times before she tuned in, which is just sad.

I appreciate your honesty.This has been a burning question in my mind...how does wls work if the issue that causes the overeating has not been fixed?

What a wonderful check up! Congrats on the BP

It really gets to me that medical professionals have bought into the whole weight loss surgery.
Must be loads of money to be made

Congratulations!!!

I know, I am very open about my weight loss and people always ask me "what's your secret?" I tell them "calorie counting and exercise" and they don't seem so excited.

YEs, I get the same reaction. They lose interest very quickly when I tell them the big secret is that there is no secret.

I think the primary care doctors are not saying that for money. They don't make money off the surgery. They should still do better. But I think it's the numbers of people they see day in and day out, years on end, who don't do anything, that makes them jaded. Combined with not having the training or time to offer much else.

I'd have to agree, I've found over my years that doctors and nurses often know as little about nutrition as the rest of us but WTG and that must have been awesome!

Actually money is made by more than just the WLS surgeons themselves.A clinic of physicians consist of many many specialties.They are usually stock holders in the clinic.They all make money off of each other.....sad but true.Bottom line, it is a business.

Yes, but the vast majority of us do not have a primary care physician with financial connections to a weight loss clinic. YMMV.

Congrats on your success! It's funny how puzzled she was! You go girl!