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Originally Posted by Deana
all I keep replaying in my head is getting rejected b/c maybe he has a girlfriend or a wife or something.
Hope you don't mind me jumping in. I agree with the others on this thread...go say hi! Even something like "What did you think of the class today?" Or "Want to grab a smoothie/coffee?"
I know it's such a pain wondering if a guy has a g/f or is married...lol I wish they had signs on them! I figured I'd share a story...
I was at a bar one night, and a group of a few people (guys and girls) were standing next to me waiting to order their drinks. They seemed friendly, so I made a little small talk. One of the guys in the group was
very cute. So I leaned over to the girl next to me and said
"I hope this isn't rude...but are you with that guy in the green shirt?" and you know what? They were husband and wife. She was super nice about it and we laughed it off. I know that could have gone other ways....but how do you know without trying?
Even just casual conversation can be a jumping off point.
"I noticed you're on the fight team. Have you been a part of it long?"
Think of it in terms of best and worse case. What's the
best thing that could happen? He's single. Y'all hit it off, and have some nice dates.
Worst case? He's taken, and you're a little embarrassed. Unless he's a jerk about it you'll both just laugh it off....and if he's a jerk, why would you want to be with him?