Okay, I know this might be TMI...but my hubby and I are having trouble with our sex life. I have appointments set up with my doctor, and with my psychiatrist....but the appointments are both weeks away.
Since I have been losing weight, my sex drive has increased- part of that might be that my kids are a little older now (youngest is now 4, so they are more able to play together without my constant help) whatever it is, it's ok...but for the past 2 months now, I have been unable to orgasm. DH tries to act like he doesn't care- I try to act like it doesn't matter. But it's aweful. This has never been an issue before.
DH thinks it's because I no longer find him sexy (but I do!) or that I no longer want to be with him.....He's started working out since I told him about this, and he's lost about 15 pounds, but I honestly don't think that's the issue, I don't think it's one of desire- because the drive is there...
I don't know, it's putting a wedge between us, because he feels like he's failing me, I feel like I'm failing him.....and I'm at the point where i don't want to talk to him about it anymore because it makes him feel bad.
I was hoping someone might have some words of wisdom for us? I have 2 more weeks before I can talk to my Doctor, and 3 before I can get in to see my psychiatrist. (not on any meds, and haven't been for the past 6 months)
Any ideas?