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Originally Posted by LandonsBaby
She's 23 years old, she's an adult. She knows she's fat. When she's ready to do something about it she will figure it out. When she's ready, help her out but until they it really is none of your business. Just be a good example.
Yup - this. Landonsbaby, nailed it on the head.
I know for me, until I was READY and WILLING to lose the weight - there would have been no convincing me of it. It's something you must decide for
yourself. Having someone tell me, would have not helped one iota. Would have only made me feel worse about myself and probably made me eat more (if that was possible).
I know how painful it is to watch someone you love be needlessly overweight. . You are just so dying to help the other person, you just want to shake some sense into them - but you can't. It can't be done.
Hopefully, one day - and soon, she
will decide for herself. And at that point, you can step in - if she asks.