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Ladies, those yearly visits are SO important, especially after 35. If you're not getting your Pap done, then you're probably not getting mammograms, either. PLEASE, if you are over 40 (or over 35 with a family history) GET A YEARLY MAMMO! My mom was diagnosed with Stage IV breast cancer in November. The doctors estimate she had her cancer for FIVE YEARS before it was caught. Had she gone for regular mammos, it would have been caught way before it metastatized to her spine and lungs.
There is no reason to be shy, embarrassed, whatever. Yeah, Paps are uncomfortable, and yeah, mammos can be a little uncomfortable, but I guarantee you that Mom would take a booby squish over radiation sickness and a bald head any day.
Yes, those gyn visits are so important. I too avoided them like the plague for years at a time when I was overweight. Now I go regularly. Avoiding those visits, like avoiding eating properly and responsibly and exercising, was just another way that I neglected myself.
I would never go years and years on end without taking my children to the doctor, not sure why I didn't feel the same way about their mother. *ME*.
I just went this past Wednesday actually and had a great experience, similar to that of cfmama's. The nurse recorded my weight on my chart. Started to look like she needed some air, eyes got glazed over, she got very silent. I'm like "what's wrong, what's wrong?". She said "Am I reading this correctly, have you lost 165 lbs?". She just went on and on and on with praise and then the ensuing how did you do it questions. After being on BP meds, have been off of them for almost 2 years now, it measured 110 over 70, my lowest ever. Then the actual doctor comes in and get this, she tells me my arms look like Jennifer Anniston's. They don't. But it surely felt good to hear anyway.
And believe it or not, the pap smear took seconds. And was totally painless. Anticipation of it was waaaay worse then the actual event, as is so often the case.
And yes, next up a Mammo and a breast sonogram. My mother is a breast cancer survivor.
Jenelle, all the best to your mom. I'll be pulling for her.