One of the greatest bands of all time...THE BEATLES....had a hit song...ALL YOU NEED IS LOVE
I don't think anyone would argue with me that LOVE WILL KEEP US TOGETHER by CAPTAIN AND TENNILLE is definitely in ALL of our Top 10's
And who can forget MUSKRAT LOVE....another CAPTAIN AND TENNILLE "classic"
LOVE
Is it really ALL we need ~ does it really keep us together ~ and do we really wanna love a muskrat....I dunno....we don't have them here in southern California...not even sure what a muskrat is.
Here is my dilemma....
We all know football season is over for the most part....baseball is a few weeks away from spring training...LAKERS are the only basketball team worth watching.....which leads up to nothing to talk about at lunch with 8 construction guys....
so we share our troubles and struggles
a young man in our mix is looking to "go for" a girl....thinking it is time for him to get serious and stop fooling around. Looking to us for advice he brings up the question....."How do you know if she is the right one....how do you know if you really love her....is love enough to get married over?"
Now between the 7 of us guys left to answer the young man's questions we probably have about 12 ex-wives....so experts we are!
The answers varied and we only have a 30 minute lunch but the Cliff Notes version was this....
3 of 7 say ....never get married again!
3 of 7 say....love is enough!
1 of 7 said....I think it is possible to love just about anybody. Love is an action not a feeling. I think it is more important to like someone....enjoy being with them when you are not on date night I told the group that I met several women that I may have been able to fall in love with over time but geographically....financially...and children/ex-husband situations kept me from pursuing the relationships. I felt that there was too much "baggage" from both of our situations.....being divorced and all.
The group told me I wasn't "fair".....that I should have re-married for love alone....
They asked me why I married Angie....I told them "because she had a van that would carry our 3 children"
What do you think?
IS LOVE ENOUGH?