Now that I am almost 40 lbs lighter, I am going back to dating. (It was not only the extra weight that held me back, it took me a while to deal with my previous break-up and in general, I was not a happy person. Fortunately, with the amount of exercise I do, I don't think I have ever felt better. )
I signed up with an online dating place, and I have been contacted by a number of guys and I also contacted some on my own. Right now, I am exchanging emails with one guy who sounds like a nice person but I have a problem with the communication. I don't want to offend our male chicks (your input is welcome!!!) but it seems to me that most men have a trouble writing emails that mean anything. Take the above guy - he is obviously quite intelligent, he runs a small clinic, but his emails drive me up the walls. He answers my questions but that's it. There is nothing to go on - he asks very little questions, and in his last email, he just provided answers to mine but there was nothing else. I do not interpret it as a sign of not being interested (at least in his case) because he said he would like us to meet.
I won't be desperate if he doesn't work out (we are about 100 km apart), so that would limit everything to weekends only, etc. - this is just a general rant because I had been receiving similar emails from other men as well.
I can be pretty chatty in my emails, but it is hard to "invent" topics to discuss when the other party doesn't provide any hints.
Interested in your opinions or experience if you have any. Thanks.