Hi all,
I've done some googling and really haven't come up with an answer, so I thought I'd ask you all.
My brother-in-law's step daughter got married a couple of weeks ago for the second time. We rec'd an invitation to the wedding, but were unable to attend.
My question is: should we send a gift??
Some websites said that you are not obligated for a second marriage and some said it didn't matter if it was the 15th wedding, you should send a gift.
Here's my problem with it: we always send this girl a Christmas gift and gifts for her 2 children (for Christmas and birthdays) and I never get a thank you or acknowledgment of any kind for the gifts.
So, I'm sure if we send something, we'll never hear anything about it. They live in another state and we haven't even seen them in over 2 yrs.
The only little bit of "guilt" that I'm feeling is that I don't want to hurt my sister-in-law's feelings (her mother).
So, what would you do??
Thanks