Get out the cheese I'm gona' whine.
I have a coworker who is impossible. She used to be a sort of "manager" I think the title was self appointed. When she went on maternity leave I filled her place, while doing my own job with much abuse from her sister who also works there. That was last May.
I feel like she doesn't really do anything, she has busy work, like deleting junk mail, but as far as real work that brings the company money, I don't know what it is.
I can't have a conversation with anyone without her butting in and making us recant the entire convo to her so she can put her .02 in. I am pregnant and her parenting advice is "not my style" to put it nicely. Normally I would freak out on her and let her pout, but there are only 4 people in my office, one is her sister.
Should I just grow up and let it go? I feel like a horrible person for wanting to kill another human being. Even if she does make horrible racist comments, not even funny racist like, about the Brittish, who we have determined are a different race, real racist comments about the "ching-chong" language Asians speak, or how creepy it is a doll said "Islam is the light"
I know that I should be more compassionate, but I am wearing thin. Every time she talks to me I feel like I am being attacked. Even the tone of her voice is combative. I feel better 'telling the wind'
any thoughts?