I really understand how some people can really get under your skin. I've had to learn to disengage and refuse to let them make me miserable. Not that it isn't still a struggle. But I just had to, because it was eating me up, even if I was right and they were wrong
. Sometimes you have to give some thought to what you can do to improve a situation, and sometimes you have to just let it go, fair or not. The only thing that makes it easier for me to let some things go is focusing on the fact that I am miserable over it and they are not. That is even more unfair.