I had been doing really well for a year..had lost nearly 50 of my 100 pounds..then I let myself get off track...and was gaining again. I didn't realize how much it was bothering me until:
My boyfriend and I were at an antique sale a few weeks and I was introduced to a woman he knows. She was maybe a size 6/8 and about 5.10. Anyhow we were talking about my friend's daughter's wedding and we were talking about her dress. I said, well it will look lovely on her..she is very tall and slim..like you. Well this woman, starts smacking her CONCAVE stomach and saying: Slim oh god no I am a cow..loook at this gut and went on and on about this.
I am 5'9 and an 18/20 I WAS FURIOUS! Driving home, I was pretty quiet and my friend asked me what was wrong and I just burst into tears. It all came out..how pissed off I am at women who are *****ing because they have gained three pounds and now they can't fit into their "skinny" jeans, how movies always make the "funny person" fat, how mad I was at myself for letting myself get off track..it all just came out...and I realized how much of an emotional toll being fat is taking on me.
I am about to turn fifty, and I am GOING to lose that extra 15 pounds and reach my halfway goal of losing 50 pounds by my birthday in november. I am angry at myself for letting myself get fat in the first place and then living as a fat person for twenty years. I am determined that my days of living as a fat, sad, depressed self-loathing person are going to come to an end. I don't want to worry if I will fit in the plane seat, to be limited to shopping in FAT LADY STORES WITH UGLY CLOTHES, of seeing myself reflected in a window and being shocked at how I look.
I have a lot going for me. I may not be pretty, but I don't make dogs howl. I have beautiful blue eyes good skin and don't look fifty or feel fifty at all.I am tall, and I have long arms and legs. I have always carried myself well and I am pretty graceful. I remember being what looked like slim...but I was a size 14/16..that is just my build. I find it ironic that my goal weight and size are what some women just wail about..but they are shorter than I am and dont' have my build. I pull out a 14.16 from a rack and it looks TINY to me.
And when I get there, I am going to post my picture..in my dream outfit..a slim black skirt, a gray cashmere turtleneck, my favourite silver jewellery and my killer high heels..which I will take off immediately after that picture is taken (the heels, not the whole outfit,a dn then I will put on my pretty patent flats lol)
So ladies and gents..be prepared cause this woman is going to be posting losses and workouts and every little success she has,,,cause I have spent years hiding and hating myself..and now I am going to pat myself on the back every moment I can. SO THERE~!