My DD just turned 2.5 yrs old and there is one thing she worries me. When she's told not to do something or something like that, (for example, not to pick her nose) she gets very frustrated and shows it by either hitting herself, pulling her hair really hard, or biting her hand and grunts very loud. This scares me and feel like it's my fault because I had a very stressful pregnancy and feel like I caused this. I asked her daycare teacher and she said that her step-son does that too. He's little bit older than my DD. She said this is "normal" for their age because they haven't full learned how to communicate yet and this is one of the way to show their emotion. I'm still worried, though... I try to talk to her when she does it, but sometimes it's hard to get her attention because she's grunting and so into "hurting" herself. Do you ladies have any suggestions or advice? Is it really normal and just a phase...?
Thank you!