Honestly ... I think you're relying too much on your hubby for support in what really does have to be a very personal commitment to losing weight.
And I say that from a very personal standpoint as well. My hubby is overweight, although not hugely so. He eats junk food. He buys junk food. He'll go out at night and get Taco Bell as a snack (and bring me a taco and then not understand and get his feelings hurt when I say I don't want it). He's not doing it maliciously and he's not *trying* to be unsupportive ... he just flat out doesn't get it. He doesn't get why I want to lose weight, he doesn't get how to lose weight (because if he really wanted to lose weight, he'd stop drinking Coke for a few weeks and drop 15 lbs - the twerp!
), he doesn't get any of it. That doesn't make him a bad person or unsupportive. It just makes him ... well ... to a large degree, a guy.
And I cannot rely on him to be my motivation or more support than he's capable of being.
You need to make the commitment to YOU that you're going to lose weight. Yes, it's harder when there's junk in the house and when you have to fight the temptation - but it's doable.
A couple of things:
You need to accept that your hubby is not going to exercise with you - your life is not a movie. Neither is mine. I bought a family gym membership, thinking that if I encouraged it, hubby would come workout with me. Nope. After a year, I dropped him and I just go with a friend or by myself.
You need to plan out your snacks. If you know you're going to get the munchies at night, then you need to have a healthy snack ready in the fridge. That way you're not "hunting in the kitchen for something to munch on" and stumbling across food you shouldn't eat - you just go straight to your snack and you eat it.
If your hubby begs you to buy cookies, tell him no. Tell him that you're not going to object if he buys them and eats them, but that you're not going to buy them and bring them into the house. He's a big boy and can buy his own snacks if he wants them.
This is YOUR journey. Take control of it. You can do it.
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