Well, I've tried everything else I've been reading this forum for years and years and posting occasionally. I've also been plan hopping for years and years -- back and forth between low carb (which works, but to which I cannot stick!) and Weight Watchers (on which I lost a lot of weight about 15 years ago on their old exchange plan but which produces an excruciatingly slow weight loss now).
I started simply counting calories last week -- 1800 calories as a target, but I'm usually a bit under, averaging 1600. I feel great, and I've lost 4.5 pounds, the biggest weight loss I've had in three years. I feel motivated for the first time in three years. (I've lost 17 pounds since last August, but 5 of that is in the past ten days.)
Nice to join you! I'm in my mid-50s, single, live alone, no children, no pets, lots of friends, lots of books