wow, how'd you ever let a charming guy like that go??? what an a$$hole!!! a hate guys who put girls down, or subtly try to keep a girl down to make himself feel like a big man grrrrrrrr i wanna beat him up!
I don't think your feelings are necessarily because you're a bit heavier than you'd like ~ I have a close friend who's thin and quite pretty and yet she lets her dude treat her like absolute friggin' garbage and I'm losing a friend over it
I told her I can't be her sounding board anymore, can't listen to her cry anymore when she's so unwilling to do anything to change it.
I guess the main thing is to keep positive happy shiney people in your life and cut the black-hearted cancers O-U-T!!!