So, as you all know.. I have a serious crush on a guy.. We’ve known each other 2 ½ years, and have worked with each other for just as long. We were really good friends for a while, but because I have a huge crush on him, and I’m embarrassed of myself too much to let him know, I’ve kinda distanced myself. We see each other at work, and sometimes hang out together (we have mutual friends), that’s about it. Well he joined the army, and is now going away for a while, and 2 nights ago, I saw him, and hung out with him for a while.. His sister invited me to a “surprise” going away party for him. I really had no intention on going at first, but the other night when he was with me and my best friend (who he’s also good friends with) he said that he knew about the party, and wanted us to come.
So he himself has now invited me to come to his party.. Now I do feel like I should go, but I’m nervous!! Besides, he also said “maybe you can meet my girlfriend” HAH! I don’t want to meet her!! Well, I kinda do, because I wanna see what she has that I don’t, but on the other hand, I really don’t wanna meet her either…
Part of me wants to buy a new outfit, get my hair done, and go… The other part of me wants to hide!!
I really want to see him once more before he leaves. With where he’s going I just don’t know if I’ll have another chance to see him. But I’m so ashamed of myself, and I get all nervous, and stuff when I’m around him, I always end up putting my foot in my mouth, or embarrassing myself some how when I’m around him.
I just don’t know.
So should I go or not?