So when I create a thread they are usually not begging for advice, but I could really use some words of wisdom.
Being an overweight child, I always had certain family members making comments, expressing "concern", etc... One of my uncles in particular exhibited a fine talent for this. He even went so far as to send me diet books on my 12th birthday. The last time I saw him was 3 years ago at Christmas, when I was at my highest weight and was very depressed. He snuck in a couple of comments- nothing truly devastating, but enough to let me know he was paying attention. He lives overseas and I really don't maintain a relationship with him, but when I lost weight he was sure to email me and praise me for "getting my life together". I will see him next weekend at a family gathering and I am just dreading it. He is just beside himself over my "progress" and the thought of having to listen to him go on and on makes me not want to go. I am not uncomfortable with people asking me questions or commenting on my weightloss except in this case. My feeling is that he thinks this gives him cart blanche (sp?) to not only rave about me now, but say everything he wanted to say when I was big. I can't believe how stressed out I am over it and I have no idea how to go about thwarting it! There will be the initial "shock and awe" and that I can handle, but I know him and he will not let it go.
So. Do I be firm and tell him that I am just done discussing my weight with him or try to grin and bear it for family's sake? This is the first time my BF will be around the entire family and while I know he would stick up for me in a heartbeat, the thought itself is just mortifying.
Please. Advise.