Well last night i had a talk with the guy I was dating and his Other girlfriend and for an hour and a half they tried to convince me we should all "get along" and couldn't seem to accept it when I told them I was dating someone who only wanted me. I was ok with hanging out because I don't hate my ex, but for all that time they just couldn't see why I couldn't just be ok with having half a person. He feels he is going to Iraq and should be able to have whatever is going to make him happy before he goes. I just wanted to be his friend until he leaves apparent silly me.
We have been arguing about this for 4 months and me in tears for alot of that. Well Last night was the straw...the epiphany that maybe you can't change some people. He called me while they were in bed so I could talk to them while they had "fun", and no this had never happened before. Funny this time I didn't cry, no mopping, just finally ok....I can let it go know.
There is never going to be a friendship, because they won't realize I'm not interested in sharing on any level. This was the person I planned to marry.
So just curious what was the thing that made you finally realize that a bad relationship wasn't going to work?