I was looking at some pictures with my daughter today. We came across some that I took of my grandparents' home after they passed away. I had taken a couple of the front yard where I played as a child. I had one of the living room fireplace that brought back memories of holidays. However, I had 7 of the kitchen appliances. Oven, stove, refrigerator.
It was a shock. How strange it seemed to me that I had taken so many pictures of the kitchen. However, at the time that I took the pictures, the best memories that I had of being with my grandparents were about food. My grandma cooked for me. It was the only thing that I truly enjoyed about her. She was a critical lady who regularly pointed out my flaws.
I loved that her appliances were ancient (from the 1950's) and they still worked great. Like many people from her generation, she saved every penny and fixed things when they broke. However, there were many examples of this throughout the house... so, why my obsession with the kitchen?
I regularly felt lonely, judged, and unaccepted in my grandparents' home. The kitchen was my solace. It was the place where I could find some comfort and joy. It smelled good there. It tasted good there. I could make my grandma happy and proud when I enjoyed her meals.
Just one more example of my food obsession. Thankfully, I don't have to take pictures of kitchens anymore. I've attached a couple of of them.