Hi everyone. I'm new here and I'm having a really hard time finding a place to talk to people who might have some of the same issues I have. I really don't think I'm going to find anyone with similar issues, but here goes.
I'm 46 years old and about 100lb overweight. I have one child who is leaving the nest. I have never been married...never wanted to be married.
I have been treated for depression and anxiety for many years. The vote is still out on bipolar. (I haven't had a manic episode since I quit drinking ten years ago.)
Anyway, in the last four years I've had: back surgery, colon cancer and surgery, ventral hernia surgery (the sutures from the colon cancer came apart inside...ouch), knee surgery, and most recently, uterine cancer and a radical hysterectomy. BAM, BAM, BAM, BAM, BAM!!!
If I went into it all, it would make a sad novel. Suffice to say I've been depressed all my life and now I'm dying slowly and painfully....and obesely... I am isolated and terribly depressed, sometimes suicidally depressed...like tonight. I have lost all my friends to depression. I used to be a performer, and a good one. Now I'm just a sad sack of fat who nobody cares about or wants to be around. I'm not entertaining them anymore, so I'm useless to them. I can't really blame them.
Now I'm on disability and I hate it. My family has to pick up the slack because my rent and my disability are the same. If I didn't have them I'd be out on the streets.
I'm not looking for advice about my condition. I've been seen by many, many doctors and psychiatrists and have tried holistic methods. What I need is support from some people who might be going through similar issues. My body is falling apart and I don't have any energy or will to put it back together. But I figure I have to finish up this life, so I want to try to at least get some of the weight off to see if maybe that will help the depression and the joint pain and back problems.
Is there anyone here who would like to partner up with me and get through this together? Is there anyone who simply understands and won't just tell me to get to a doctor or call a hotline? Is there anyone who just has similar problems and feels as trapped and hopeless as I do?
Sorry to be such a downer, but I'm feeling pretty desperate.
blessings,
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