Well in the last 2 years I have lost alot of dead weight. 398 to be exact! How do you ask? 340 of it from losing my ex in a divorce and 58 of my own! hahahahahaha

LOL, if I counted all the wt. I had lost from divorcing all my exes, I know I'd have lost at least 398 lbs. too.

hahahahah you should add it up!! My ex was a big guy. He was like 6'4!!! I was a little sad when I sat down and did the math the other day. At 5'4 and 280 I was actually MORE overweight than him! Good riddance!! Have you run into any of your exes since you have lost the weight? Mine hasn't seen me since January and I could really care less what he thinks and all that but I can't wait til I get to 160 or so and bump into him. He will be so mad!! muahahaahahah

Let's see. My son's father weighed 210, My next Ex weighed 215 and my last Ex weighed 190 and I have lost 94 lbs. So that is a grand total of 699 useless lbs. lost. Yeah for me.
I haven't seen a one of them since losing the weight and that is fine with me. Hope I never do. Actually, I'll probably see my son's dad at Christmas time, he usually comes around each Christmas. When he had an affair on me with another nurse, I was so jealous , because she was stick thin. He married her and now she outweighs me by at least 100 lbs. according to my son. When they had the affair, I was pregnant with our son. I called her up and told her that if I ever saw her, I'd kick her butt and I didn't care how long it took me. LOL, I was quite the redneck back then. Lol, but anytime over the past 20 yrs. when he came to pick up my son, he dropped her off at the nearby convenience store and had her wait there while he came to the house. I think it's hilarious.

That is hilarious Lily! Well he is her problem now! And she him! lol I actually never care to see my ex again either. He is supposed to have "every other weekend" but never comes! He came once for 20 minutes in Jan 2006 and once for 20 minutes in July of 2005!!! This is after fighting me tooth and nail in court trying to get custody so he could avoid child supoort! New hubby and I really want to move back to Mt. We are trying to figure how to legally go about it. I think in the next few weeks I am going to file a change in custody with me having full and ask the judge for permission to move.

I seen one of my ex's (boyfriend between commomlaw hubby and current hubby) this summer. It felt good he had to take a second look then his eyes went big. The last time i saw him was a month after I gave birth to my last baby (now 2). Oh yeah he cheated on me more than once so it was a big ego boost when he looked at his current then me and haed had that face on.,......

hahahahahah That is great Canadianmom!!! What a jerk! With my ex it wasn't a cheating thing, he just started getting abusive. It is nice to see them so shocked though! lol

BWAHAHAHAHA!

Let's see, Assbite was about 160 and 6 ft. He always ridiculed me because I'm vertically challenged (a little under 5' 4") and was about 110 lbs. In fact, the night I delivered our baby, I wore a regular size 10 dress into the hospital. They didn't think I was pg. They found out 25 min. later when I delivered. Boy they can move fast! He just thought I was so obese when I put on 12 lbs during pregnancy.

Ken, a mistake of a BF was about 210.

Linc, my late husband, was about 140. I'd love those 140 lbs back.

If I do decide to get out of this current marriage, then it will add 190 to the mix. So I guess I'm between 370 and 560.

Love your stories. Makes me realize that I have sisterhood out there.

Yes you do cb! Sorry to hear about your late hubby! What happened? The first guy sounds like a real jerk!!! Whats wrong with the current one?

First marriage was an eye opener for me. I finally left him for the joys of a battered women's shelter. When I married my second husband, Linc, Assbite called him and asked him to adopt our daughter. He said he wanted to continue his philosophy/psychology education and support his mother. I was glad to have him out of our lives.

Linc was a lovely gentlemen who was an answer to a prayer. I'd prayed that someone would come into my life and show me that love didn't mean being beaten up or having someone break into my car and hide in the back to see which way I took home from the grocery store if I went at night. (Yes, Assbite took time off work and did that to me. I almost clubbed him with the jack handle that I kept in the car because he was dressed in black and I couldn't see him until he rose up out of the back of the car.) Anyway, Linc adopted my daughter and we went on to have one of our own. I was under 30 when he passed away. His heart gave out and he was only in his mid 50s.

As far as what's wrong now. I'm just not happy. We've been going through a rough patch for many years. I don't feel the need to "run for my life". I'm just biding my time. My job situation hasn't been the best for a bit, so I will have to wait and see what happens.

Thanks for being there.

Hi CBMare! Wow, lots of stuff. Sorry you lost your sweetie so early. I am sure you miss him!! You should of whacked the ex a good one!! With your current, maybe have you tried counseling? Glad to be here for ya!