Hello dear people My name is Marta, and i am 23 years old and i am so happy i found this forum becouse it can be one of the inspirations for me to lose weight.... i really need to lose much weight becouse my figure is terrible now! It is true i'm 53 kg, so not too much, but it is too much for me... i look terrible with this weight.... i want to be thin and pretty like every young woman. And now i am on diet about for 4 days.... i can keep this diet. My daily intakes are about 300-400 cal, but for example today i ate only 80 cal. So it was a good day... God, i am so happy i have found you!!!!!!

Here is a picture about my current figure, i's terrible i know, so i ill see how much it will change... i will post the final result too in picture. But this is how i look like currently. It will inspiring me in losing weight.

Thanks for your support in advance... i need support so much!!

Sweetheart, you look wonderfull!!!!!!! You do not look like you need to lose a pound! And you need a lot more than that for calories just for your body to function properly. If you don't get enough you will lose your hair, nails, ect. This place will give you all the support you need but, I think we all would say your young and pretty and look great just the way you are.

Hi harmonymarti.

I'm going to be blunt: What you are doing is extremely unhealthy in so many ways it's hard to count them.

Firstly, you don't look like you need to lose any weight. That you think you look horrible at this weight sends out huge alarm bells that you have some body-image issues. Secondly, a few hundred calories a day?!! Hun, you can't keep that up- If you could, there would be nothing left of you! 80 cals a day is NOT a good day.

I am not trying to be mean- I'm worried about you.

I would suggest that you look into some proper nutrition info- and maybe consider getting some professional help. Again, not trying to be mean, but you are headed down a dangerous path.

Take care.

80 kcal!! :O :O I don't think that's enough kcal to lose weight, you'll slow up your metabolism.
But Yeah, You look great!!
I get the idea of being thin like young woman, Let's do it together!!

Woww sweet people, you are so lovely!!! Thanks for all your kind comments! Okey, it's true i have average figure, so maybe it's ok for many many people.... but i think my hips is too wide.... i just feel i would feel better if i lose some kgs.... ok i promise i won't overdo my diet, but i want to lose some pounds... thanks for your support... i know of course that many many people would be happy with my weight, but i have very few self confidence, and this forum is great becouse i see a lot of people give you their support and i need that truly... you are really soooo sweet and thank you! I still think i need to lose a lot of weight, i hate my body in this way, when i see those beautiful figured women in tv and internet, i become sad that i cannot be like them I want to make my dream come true, to be thin and very very pretty... i know you understand me I don't give up my dream and your words is like a food for me now i feel so much stronger with you sweet peoples! I feel i get so much energy from you, from here... Thank you once more and here are some new photos (taken in these minutes with my digital camera) and i wonder if i look "thinner" than on the previous photo? please tell me am i look better on these or the previous? that photo taken before yesterday when i was bigger with 2 kg... now these new photos is when i lost 2 kg.... so these are better or not? Thank you for your wonderful support! We can reach our dreams!!! Love

Yeah you look great on the last 2 pics
I , also wanted to lose weight because all the skinny women on internet and tv!

Can you clarify what you are eating each day? We will be able to help more if you give a little more information.

dear lips sewn shut, thank you for the lovely compliment! It means a lot to me you have no idea how much! It gives me so much strength that i shouldn't give up my dream... anyway, i think you don't need to lose weight, although i have never seen you yet, but many many girls looks very pretty and slim with 60 kg!! Actually i read somewhere that is a perfect weight for 18-24 years age girls.... but i just want to lose weight becouse my hips are wide, and i hope that it will be thinner with losing weight.... i am not too tall, only 167 cm, so it will be good for me if i lose weight... yes i fell in love with skinny figure, i find that beautiful.... so one day our dream will come true! So, you neighter don't need to lose weight sweetie!!!! But if you will feel better, than it's okey i think. The most important is to love ourselfes and if losing weight gives this content feeling, than that's ok i think

Hi Tara, well i give you a little info about my eating now... on an average day i eat about 400-500 kcal (today was just special that i ate 80 kcal). Most of time i eate bread with a cheese cream or with vegetable cream... and i drink a glass of milk then... for lunch i usually eate supper, or a fruit... most of the times i eat apples... after these two eating i don't eat more on that day... i started this diet 4 days ago, before i started it, i ate everything with everything! so i really didn't care what i eat and how much, i ate what i wanted and i never looked my figure... i was 56 kg on this summer, then i don't know how, but i lost 2 kgs.... without using any diet or starving... then i've decided, if i could lose 2 kgs, maybe i can lose more with dieting. So i started this 400 kcal diet And it works, now i am 52 kg. And i am happy i could reach this... about 3 years ago, i was 63 kg (my highest weight), and before that a year i was 50 kg (my lowest weight).... so, if i can go under 50 kg that will be a true goal! And if it's possible i want to go to 45 then 40 kg... this is my dream.

harmonymarti,
I just visited your xanga site. I'm sorry, but I don't think anyone here would be willing to help you get to your goal weight of 88 lbs. This is not a pro-ana site. Please get some help.

Yes, Please please get some help...

Please get help. This is really really sad

Marti, I also think you're gorgeous... Instead of finding the right body through starvation, why not try healthy foods and exercise to reshape your body... Walking, running, biking, weight training will do wonders for a beautiful body...

okey, but i feel good i don't feel i am sick or similar... i'm really surprised you didn't write i am fat.... i thought you will write, "good luck with your diet" becouse i see i am fat, and it's so good feeling that you think i am not fat... i don't know if i have bad body-image issues or not, i just can say what i see on myself: i'm definately fat and disgusting.... but of course i will leave and go away if you think i don't belong to here.. but i love you sooo much, you are so sweet and it's so great i found a website, a forum, where i can talk with people who also want to lose weight. I will try to eat more, but i still control myself, becouse i am not content with my figure. I already get more compliments from my friends and people than when i was more kg.... so they like that i lost weight... maybe some kgs even and i will be more content.... but all i can say now, i don't like my body, becouse i see i am fat, and i really wonder you don't see this on me... but of course it's very good news for me So thank you very much! I hope i can belong to here to you kisses Marti xxx

Thank you Ilene for your tips, actually i tried to excercise and i ride my bycicle a lot, but don't works... You know i have an illness, and becouse of it i am usually weak, so this is why it is hard to excercise much.... i take medicines for my illness. (But this is not eating disorder my illness it's a psychological illness). So even if i want to excercise it's very hard for me... of course when i can i do excercises and i dance at nights for music. But dieting works more for me... i was thinking on that that i should go to a gymnastic club... once i tried that, but it was too hard for me... but if i collect more energy, i will go to a gym club.....