I think these links are allowed, but I'm not entirely sure. If it's taken out, please PM me and I'll send it to you.
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/e...cle/001661.htm <-- medline
http://www.trisomy.org and
http://www.trisomy18support.org are support groups for parents/family members of trisomy babies.
Best of luck to her. My thoughts will be with her.