Jayde - thanks so much for posting and reminding us to be more aware of and grateful for what we do have.
KimmyKat -
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So WOMEN are the cause of men losing their lofty morals!
. That bothers me unbelievably, I truly have no words.... Why can't people take responsibility for their actions is a thought that comes to mind, but oh my goodness I want to scream right about now and every time I hear/read something like this.
What I'm about to say, I intend to be said with kindness and not in the sense that I'm arguing or criticizing you
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This kind of thing makes me so mad, but there's nothing I can do about it but be grateful I'm not a Saudi (or a Muslim for that matter).
Not all Saudi women experience this nor do all Muslim women. I know only a little about Islam, so I feel limited in what I can say - but I don't think it's the religion itself that is oppressive, I think it's an interpretation of the religion by persons in authority who have influence over laws. Each culture and religion is so incredibly complex, and it can be so hard to understand something we're unaccustomed to. Plus, with all the terrorism being the media spotlight nowadays, some people relate Islam with terrorism, which is so sadly inaccurate... every religion, every culture has its negatives and positives, that we will find oppression wherever we look depending on our values... I have a friend who is both Saudi and Muslim, she lives in North America, so yeah she fortunately has freedoms that she may not have elsewhere, but her family is encouraging, loving, and supportive. When she speaks of her family, the sense of respect her parents and siblings have for each other is obvious. The relationship between her parents and the relationship between herself and her parents (as a daughter) is much more loving, caring, and supportive than tons of relationships I have seen between friends of other cultures. I think that's just the nature of relationships, cultures, and religions though.. they're complex. But all over the world, people are just people.. we will find similar types of people wherever we go, even if we're influenced by culture and religion. And it's frustrating that some cultures seek to oppress these individualities in people in attempt to mould them into something those in power believe is best. But it's important to remember, especially nowadays, the high rate of multiculturalism that we find in many many countries. As well as the diversity of religion we find... There are tons of Saudi and Muslim women living all over the world, surely some of them more privilleged than you and I. I think it's fair to feel grateful for not having to endure certain experiences... but I think it's important we be careful to not generalize people, religions, and cultures.
I hope that didn't come out like a lecture of some sort... I just wanted to explain myself so I hope that all made sense!
