Newbie looking for support group

  • My name is Bella, I'm 24 years old from Oregon. Bella is an alias, but I don't feel like I'd enjoy having the entire world know my business.

    I just had my gullbladder removed, which was a tramatic experience for me. I had never been in the hospital before and certainly had never had IVS put into me, needed help going to the bathroom, been half naked in a room full of strangers, undergone surgery.

    Because of the surgery, I know I need to make a complete lifestyle change. I made a lot of bad choices in the past health wise. I have not taken care of my body at all and now that has to change.

    I'm hoping to find a support system through this community that can help me reach my goals, by being somewhat like my
    cheerleading team.

    I have a very big problem with people that are only looking to lose 5 or 10 vanity pounds. I wish to only speak with truly obese people, or people that do understand what it is like to be an obese woman in the world today.
    People who scoffs at size 14-26 being 'plus size', and understands that being a 28/30+ makes life hard to find nice clothing.

    Not interested in Romance. Just support.

  • Hello My name Is Karmon Im 23 & from the south western part of Washington near Astoria Oregon close huh? Well im new to 3fc...Started a new years diet..I weighed in at 290lbs..Im at 280. What about u dear? Anyways if you have Yahoo you can add me to your messenger.. [email]mail]. Or if ya wanna chat we can in here. Just looking for support!! Talk to you later.

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  • HI Karmon & Bella.

    You will find a lot of peoplewho are looking to lose a large amount of food. I want to lose a total of 120. I started New Years (again), but really started counting calories last week after I came home from a business trip and the weight is coming off. I am trying to add exercise, but I have not done too well at that. Hope we can all support each other.

    Feel free to Yahoo IM or PM me. Good luck & take care - Erin
  • Hi Bella & Karmon ~
    I just wanted to say hello and say WELCOME To 3FC !! I too hope you find the support & encouragement here that you both seek !

    Bella, I am so sorry you've had to go through what you had to endure. I know that wasn't a fun experience, and I can relate to how you feel. I noticed you mentioned you're seeking support from someone who is BIG - well GUESS What !! I am 5'3 - I started on Jan 1st with a SW274, CW263, with a GW150. I wear larger size clothes, and am SO ready to get out of the big sizes and be healthy and feel sexy ! If I can be here for you feel free to email me or PM me here anytime if you're interested !

    Karmon, it sounds like you're ready to lose weight and get on the journey to be a NEW you !! If I too can be here for you, feel free to email me or PM me here anytime if you're interested !

    I guess it would help for me to tell you who I am
    My name is Elizabeth ~ I am 30 yrs old, and on the journey to a brand new me !!

    I would like to invite you to join Us on The Diet Journey of 2006 ~ 3FC Style !!

    A place regardless of how much or how little you have to lose. A place to make buddies, and a great support base!!

    Where you WILL find encouragement !!

    You will find The Diet Journey of 2006 ~ 3FC Style !! listed under the Support Forums Group !!


    Come join us on the journey ~ Hope to see you there!!