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  • Hi there, I just joined you ladies today, and i thought I would introduce myself.

    I am Missy SAHM with 2 girls. My problem is...I used to be 110 lbs before I had kids. I stepped on the scale last night, (as my youngest is almost 2) and it was a, holy cow, 160. now I know that is not alot to some people, but I am a tiny person. 5'2" with a thin frame. It's just that there is something sticking out the bottom of my back, and someone strapped a spare tire around what used to be a cute waist.

    I just wanted to join in and see if I could learn some things. Hope you don't mind my poking around?

    Thanks, Missy
  • Hi,
    I am also a SAHM named Missie. I am 5'1" and I totally understand what you mean about the way 160lbs looks and feels on someone our size
    I also just joined this week and am having a great time and getting lots of encouragement.
  • Hello back
    I have not told my DH how much I weigh yet. All he knows is last year I "resolved" to lose my baby weight and i didn't do it. He doesn't know I gained more. And as of yesterday I weigh as much as he does and he is 6 foot tall. I look at pictures of myself and want to throw up. And I even thought, when my kids get older and ask where is mommy in all the photo albums, I decided to tell them I was just the one taking the pictures.

    I am off to look up some stuff on blood sugar. Nice to meet you.

    Missy
  • Oh goodness, Missy, I understand where you're coming from. I weigh just about as much as my boyfriend, and he's seven inches taller!! I was so ashamed of myself when I found out what he weighs.
  • Hi Missy (from another short and potentially dainty person), what kind of food or exercise plan had you been thinking about or are you still looking?
  • I am 5'6 and 160 and yes all my weight came from having kids and I even gained some back that I lost i have done Weight Watchers and South Beach and it seems they both work but I am not disciplined enough to do SB so here I am and I am gonna do WW and see what happens. Good Luck to Us all.

    Maybe we can all be buddies??
  • Quote: Hi Missy (from another short and potentially dainty person), what kind of food or exercise plan had you been thinking about or are you still looking?
    I am going to have to do alot of research to find the right foods for me. I am hypoglycemic, to both extremes, if anyone understands that. If I dont eat often enough, my sugar hits the floor, and I get real sick. And most days right after I eat, I slip into what I call food coma. So I will be doing some research on dieting with this condition. For years i have been hearing that carbs are bad, but after some research, I think in my case they are needed.

    I am going to make alot of life changes, a little bit at a time. I am going to change my diet, and start on a moderate excersise program. Just not sure which one yet. And I want to set goals that are attainable. I don't deal well with failure, so I am going to avoid it at all cost.
  • hey Missy I am too 5,1 and I am a sloppy 170

    I am starting curves and watch what I eat. My hubby needs to loose some weight too however being he works construction a Salad wont work for him for supper.I am going to buy me some Lean cuisine "just in case" I make a meal thats "too much" kinda like a back up plan. I try not too eat fried foods, and really no food after 6;30 pm. Lots of water!!! I aint much for fruits and veggies so I have to really work on that .....

    Oh I have 3 kids too 14 ,11, 9.And I SWEAR they are the reason for all this EXTRA Flubber !!!!!
  • I'm hypoglycemic too. The most helpful thing I've found is protein. I try to eat some protein every couple of hours. Slower, steady release of blood sugar.
  • Plan of attack.
    Well I have been researching all week, my issues. And i decided that a good plan of attack is a small one.
    So each week I will set 5 small attainable goals. And a reward for myself if I complete my goals. I have a webforum attached to my home page, so it will be easy for me to keep track of it, on a more personal level. And I can get support from my friends and family there.

    Today I set my 5 goals for this week. And I know they sound small, but they are steps that I CAN do.

    Eat breakfast every morning, by 8 am (For blood sugar issues)

    Get dressed every morning by 9 am (depression) and open the curtians.

    Drink 2 glasses of water everyday.

    tell my husband and children I love them everyday.

    walk around the block 4 times this week.

    Reward: Play video games next weekend. ( i could sit infront of any "tycoon" game all day)


    Missy