Hi Everyone!
I just wanted to vent something out and maybe get your guys input on this. So Sunday afternoon I went to lunch with with my one guy friends (shaun) that i just have the biggest crush on, but I dont think he feels the same way we always some how end up together lol. Anyways, we were at our fav resturant and our waitress which i didn't know until he told me was like reallllly big and now she's thin (which is great 4 her) but he had said when she was not thin she hit on when our other guys friends (jay) but u know guys he didnt careless but now he said that he should have went out with her when he had the chance. So my guy friend (shaun) that i was with said i prolly wouldnt have until she had lost the weight. Reasons y he go out wouldnt go out with me. And i know that a guy i shouldnt go out with. Sometimes I do wonder if did reach my goal weight would he ask me out? would he look at me differently? would he be jealous? thanks 4 listening! Any feedback would be kool.

Hii... i think that it's obnoxious when guys base so much on weight. I have seen some weird looking guys with beautiful girls. I feel like there are girls out there who are also very judgmental but at the same time, girls are more flexible when it comes to the appearance of guys. Honestly, you can only look at sometime for so long and admire how good looking they are but if you can't have a conversation with them, that's compeltely frustrating. Also, let's say that you reach your goal weight (which looks like you are well on your way to! ), would you really want to be with a friend who's whole opinion changes about you just becuase you dropped weight? That seems shallow to me, in my opinion.

Honey, do you realy wanna settle for a guy who may get with you cuz of how you look? I have settled for these types of guys in the past (the ones who wouldn't look twice at me when I weighed 170, but had time for me at 135). And I tell you, they were pointless, superficial relationships.

In the beginning i did wanted to be with him. But now that guys look at me and feel great about myself i dont need him 4 a bf anyways