I'm sorry to hear that people are bugging you about your food choices
I've been pretty lucky that most of the people I deal with are just well meaning food pushers. But even though I can't relate on that level, I so agree about wishing there was a way to meet people with the same goals in the real world. I even looked up group meetings or support groups in my city to see if there was a way to meet people who had lost weights, but the only things I could find were for post-surgery people only. This forum is wonderful, but sometimes you just want talk to a real person ::hugs::