souvenirdarling, I so relate to you in many ways and interestingly enough, I was just having this conversation yesterday with a good friend. Until my late 20s/early 30s I suffered with acne as well. While I did have moments of cystic acne (large bumps under the skin that sometimes would or would not surface and come to a head), mostly I just had acne and wow was it pervasive. I had it on my face as well as my back. Like many women on this site who can discuss the many different diets and weight-loss plans they've been on, I can tell you similar stories about the many things I tried to control my acne. Stopped eating chocolate, drinking caffeine, washed my face several times a day, and then there were the products, Clearisil, Oxy, Noxema, various face toners with alcohol bases to control oil...oy! It was maddening and nothing worked

I've never been on birth control so I can't speak to how this can help but I've heard many, many women say that BC does indeed help control or stop their acne.
Mostly, I think our acne issues are very particular to us. I know you said you didn't want to take medication, but I have to say that what finally did it for me was being on a short term regiment of mynocline (an antibiotic). I took it for about a year on and off going in for regular blood tests to make sure that it wasn't effecting my liver (it didn't). Also, by the time I went this route I was moving toward 30, my hormones were no longer the crazy hormones of my teen years, and my face was less oily. Don't get me wrong it's still plenty oily but in my teen years and early 20s it was OPEC nation oily! All these things combined really helped my situation.
Today, at 44, while I still struggle with a few pimples around the time of my cycle, they don't hurt and they quickly go away. I use a regular over the counter product to help the drying process along. Also, about 5 years after my acne cleared up I started to work on my overall health and losing weight. Since that time my skin became much brighter and just healthier looking as I limited processed foods (particularly things like cakes, cookies, soda, etc.) and swapped in whole, much more nutritious foods. In my case a healthier diet and drinking a lot of water daily has helped improve the look of my skin.
Sounds like you're doing your homework and I want to encourage you to keep investigating until you figure out what works best for you. First things, first STOP TOUCHING YOUR FACE, especially PICKING! I know it's tempting but you don't want the lasting effects of acne scarring. Look at your make-up if you wear it. Is it non-comedogenic? Even if it is could it contain something that aggravates your acne? Stay well hydrated with water. Use a gentle cleanser and perhaps a light topical over the counter medication with a 5-10% benzoyl peroxide formula. Yes, tweak the diet and chart not only how this impacts your skin, but how you feel when you do. And of course, when and if you decide to see a dermatologist find a well respected one who will really listen to you and provide good advice and a plan of action.
Good luck and keep us posted!
