YES and YES and YES ...
yes, it will get better; yes, I had this problem; and yes, it will get better as you lose some weight. I agree with the advice GEORGIA gave you. I also used a ROWING MACHINE, hand-weights, and toning exercises at first -- to burn cals, get stronger AND MORE fit. I also did short spurts of dancing (just 5-10 minutes) as well.
Even if you don't move around much, just move the rest of your body. Plus, don't forget chair aerobics; moving your arms burns calories too. You can do some light yoga, pilates, or even TAI CHI for beginners (which was my favorite; google that).
Plus, my doctor recommended putting my feet/legs up three times a day; and that helped a lot too. I started with 1 hour, then brought the time down; now I only put them up in the afternoon if needed and the evening if necessary. Some nights, I just go to bed a bit earlier; put my legs up and read. It all helped ...
