I know you said you're nervous about online shopping, but I highly suggest checking out Zappos. They started off selling shoes (they sell other stuff now as well) and they literally have thousands of styles. You can shop by size, width, heel height, shaft height, shaft width.... All kinds of search options. My mom can only wear certain shoes because of her particular needs (really wide feet, really big calves) and so when she came up to visit and needed winter boots for the first time, we got her a pair from them. I almost exclusively get my shoes from them (I've got pretty big feet myself) and they offer two day shipping and a 365 day return policy. I highly recommend them, even if you're just looking for ideas
