As many others on this forum, am not 100% and I am still a tremendous loser
That said, the things you chose to cheat with make a huge difference. Everyone has different results; some need 100% or nothing for dedication. Others, like myself, are strict for only the most part. Although, I do have to kick myself back into 100% if the cheating gets out of hand.
Now, some things that are NOT detrimental to my weight loss; cooked onions, tomatoes regularly, more than 2 oz of non-fat milk, a bit more meat and/or olive oil. If you want to cheat with fruit, and this is directly from my coach, apples and bananas are the worst, waaaaaay too much sugar; strawberries and plums are much better.
Lastly, if you choose to cheat a little here and there, permit only 1 or 2 cheats from the above at most a day. If you start to notice you aren't losing very well, fall back to 100% for 3-5 days, then cheat 1 day and keep alternating like that.
I've also noticed, the timing intervals between IP meals make a big difference for me. There is also the option of eating a regular IP packet in place of a snack on days you want to cheat or periods when you want to lose more and faster.
Hope that helps.