OK, brand spankin new here.. and I am a little too computer UNSAVVY, I am sure that does not help... I have been reading and creepin" on many pages.. but I have no clue how to get where OR even to unearth the all the pearls of information... THERE ARE SO MANY NEWBIES like me, who ask the same questions, but there is no ONE resource to give guidance...

Now that I posted this~I do not know if I will ever find it again to read relies.

I have learned that 3FC does not have an instant chat.. so I would like to know how to PM one person to ask questions and get answers ( hopefully)

Sitting on at the computer searching this site does not really count as exercise...

Here's hopin for the best..

You might be too new to the website to send private messages (PMs) to people.
http://www.3fatchicks.com/forum/freq...questions-155/

That should help answer some of your questions.
When you're able to PM, you look to the left of your screen. See the person's username that is a link? click it. One of the choices will be: "Send a private message to ___" Once you click it, you'll be able to send a PM.

Also, if you're worried about finding a thread again, you can bookmark it in your browser. Or you can subscribe to the thread.

to subscribe to the thread:
go to the top of the page, where your first post is.
Click on "Thread tools"
Click on "subscribe to this thread"

To find your subscribed threads, scroll to the top.
Click on "User CP" at the far left.
On the left side of the page, under the heading "subscribed threads"
click on "list subscriptions"

voila!