Mel - my sentiments exactly! And I agree with Mindi as well...
Hey - didn't mean to step on toes...MY introduction with weights was when my Jazzercise instructor decided to add a program that was called (at the time) Jazzercise Plus...where we used wraparound weights that could be adjusted in 1/4 pound increments up to 5 pounds max...(this was back in 1991-1993).
I do believe that Curves is a great place for folks to get started on weights if they feel uncomfortable in a TRADITIONAL GYM ENVIRONMENT. (how's that?) They do have some major issues to work on IMO: the inconvenient hours; the lack of day care (at least at the Curves in my town; my gym has daycare for $3.00 per child per day available); and the lack of certification (according to their website, franchisees are not required to have any background in fitness or weight control - they only need to attend a five-day seminar at the Curves' HQ and pony up $25,000). When you have clients who are dealing with major health issues such as extreme obesity, osteoperosis, arthritis, etc., etc., I feel it is DEFINITELY necessary for a franchisee to have SOME background in the business they intend to open...but that's just IMO.
With Mel, I would like to encourage ALL of you to suck up your courage and visit an actual gym. I'm sure you will find that you will NOT be laughed at or made fun of...no one will be staring at you...generally people are there to work out, not to gab and gossip. (besides, working out with a variety of weights and machines is FUN!)
In fact at the gym I belong to (24 Hour Fitness) while we do have a few dedicated 'musclehead' guys and a couple gals who look like they could be on the cover of Oxygen...the vast majority run the gamut to 'just average' to supersized, with quite a few senior citizens mixed in (my town has a large senior population). We all use the same locker room...the same showers (the guys have their own of course

) and NO ONE is making fun or pointing fingers...like Mel said so eloquently...anyone who walks through the door is treated with the respect they deserve...and the great thing is that I can pick my own hours to go work out - since they're open 24/7!
In closing - I'd like to recommend a book by the great old bodybuilder, Dave Draper - called "Your Body Revival - Weight Loss Straight Talk". I think you'll find it inspiring...he also has a great website at
www.davedraper.com.
Take care and stay well
