My dear husband Mark died suddenly today. I am devastated and still in shock. They are doing an autopsy to detemime the cause of death.

I first found comfort at 3FC when I posted after our third date that he shared with me that he was a Type 1 diabetic and had already outlived his life expectancy. That was 7 years ago. I cried for three days and continued to date him. He was the love of my life and we just celebrated our third anniversary. As he would say "You knew the job was dangerous when you took it".

I have just started posting again at 3FC and have been doing really well with weight loss. I don't know if I will be continuing to check in for the next few weeks or how this will effect my eating and self care. It is hard to care about anything right now except the loss of my husband.

Denise aka active adventurer

Denise, I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved husband. I will be praying that you will find peace at this time.Take care of yourself , come back when you can.

I'm so sorry, Denise. You take care of yourself the best you can in this extremely difficult time.

I am so sorry for your loss *hugs*

Denise,
I will keep you and the family in my prayers. We willbe here if you need to vent or just " get away" for awhile. Take care of yourself.

Oh Denise, I am so sorry. I can't even imagine how awful this is for you. Take care of yourself as best you can. Be kind to yourself. You will be in my prayers.

i am so so sorry sending prayers and thoughts to you and your family...im so very sorry for your loss

I am so sorry for your loss! I can't begin to imagine how you are feeling. But know that we are here for you through whatever you need. You and your family and friends are in my prayers.

there are no words. Take care, and we'll still be here for you.

Oh, Denise, I'm so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family. Like someone else already said, we're here for you, whatever you need.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Oh my this is so hard to read that I can't even imagine how hard it is to live through. We are here if there is anything we can do. Please keep us posted and know that there is a large group of us who are holding you in our thoughts today and in the weeks ahead.

Oh, Denise - I can't imagine anything more difficult than going through something like this. I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved husband. May you find some measure of peace as you go through the challenging days ahead of you.

Sorry for your loss. Words do seem unimportant at this time. Be strong.

soo sory to hear that.u have my prayers and we are here for u . keep strong(remember the good times u had with him)