I used to have an "ideal" weight of 115-118, which is completely unattainable for me now. I am very small-framed and tend to have a high body-fat percentage, which is why I looked great weighing that little.
Once I hit my mid-30s, I started gaining weight and the lowest I have gotten since then is 129 (but not for long). I maintained 135 for most of last year but got sloppy and now am solidly in the 140s again.
So I guess I have two goals.
1: Get below 140 and stay there. Given my body type, more than 140 is too much
2: Work on body composition/fitness level and healthy diet, which will probably put me at a weight of 130-135, but I have learned to not pick a specific number.
I would love to be less than 130 again but I think it is going to happen. I can keep trying though
